…it works both ways. Meaning sometimes - it is more than fair.
As we mature we learn to better understand of our own sense of ‘fairness’ and to do our part to live fairly too…or as objectively as we can anyway.
And to accept that no matter what, things won’t always be fair or go our way. So then we have to learn to let it go. I have learned to visualize holding ‘it’ and then opening my palm and watching it float away.